3 ways to change your love life with a portable speaker
Music is a powerful tool for increasing connection. Yet with so many people using headphones music has lost its social magic. Here are 3 ways that I have used portable bluetooth speakers to dramatically enhance my love life.
- Work out together.
Exercise releases endorphins, the feel good juice that makes you happy. Working out also increases sex drive. Now add music to the mix and you have a powerful emotional cocktail. But scrap the headphones. You want to connect with each other. Now let him/her pick the musical tracks. Or better yet pick them together. Hit play and do a quick workout. As the endorphins build and the music flows, so does the sexual energy. My experience doing yoga with a romantic partner has proven to be even more intense.
- Forget the traditional movie date and listen to music together.
Movies place the focus on a flickering screen and the characters within. You want the focus to be on each other. Now if you really are feeling adventurous pick a track and ask your date to dance. Remember the scene from The Notebook? Now do that but make it way more powerful and less awkward with a musical track playing.
- Give him/her a gift that will never be forgotten.
This final tip is by far the most powerful. With Christmas being right around the corner it can be really tough picking a gift for someone you have been dating. This gets especially tricky if you haven’t hit the “official” stage of dating. Get a gift too big and you scare the person off. Get one too small and the result is the same. But get a gift that is personal, inexpensive, and shows the you care? Success.
So what to do? Buy a wireless bluetooth speaker and record a personal message. Using your phone’s recording app make a custom recording. You can pair your phone to the speaker and after she opens it hit the play button. Your message should be honest and from the heart. The more serious the relationship the more you can talk about favorite memories and how much you love them. If your just getting started keep it sweet and funny. Now sit back and watch her Melt.